You were made for a purpose. You were given a personality perfect for that purpose. You were given talents, gifts, and interests for that purpose. You experience the way you do, learn the way you do, relate the way you do, for that purpose. You fulfill that purpose simply by being you. You cannot help but fulfill that purpose, for you cannot be anyone other than you. No choice you make can change that. You can be miserable being yourself, or you can enjoy being yourself. You can be yourself for a short time, or a long time. These are your choices.